"Recalculate" - Have you ever come to a point in your life that you had to recalculate your time, your priorities, and even some appointments? What is the meaning of that word so often used? It is the description of what happens when we are considering or navigating change. In fact, the concept of “examining” the realities of life and how those measure up to our vision for our family is an important strategy for parents to be doing on a regular basis. If it reality doesn’t match up to vision, then the option to “recalculate” may be important. The GPS is a good example of how it recalculates the journey when we are off course on a trip. The only way we can recalculate is to slow down enough to examine and evaluate the condition of our relationships, the habits of our family, and the daily stresses of our life. By asking, “Is this the life I want to live?” we can begin the process of evaluating. If the answer is “No,” then recalculate and get yourself and/or your family headed back in the right direction. (Quote: From Pastor's Desk- Pr.Gungadoo, 18-May-2013)
Sunday, December 22, 2013
Xmas in the Aussie Way
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
I JUST WOKE UP TO A SINGAPORE I NO LONGER LOVE
Adopted from: therealsingapore.com/content/i-just-woke-singapore-i-no-longer-love
Post date: 17 Dec 2013 - 7:21am
I Just Woke Up...
Born in the mid 70's, I grew up with fond memories of seating in the back seat of my dad's car, going to not so crowded beaches and neighborhood parties. Now all grown up, I have 2 kids on my own and have been struggling to create moments for my family that my parents once did. The places I once knew are all concrete and the basic enjoyments in life are diminishing. Once my existing car expires, I don't think I can buy another. My kids are in primary school and I doubt they will be able to buy cars or a proper living space, 15 years from now. I'm not looking at a high end car but a normal family saloon that we can all enjoy in.
What has happened to Singapore, a country I once loved. I didn't choose to be born here but now it seems I may not have a choice but to leave here if I still want to enjoy simple pleasures in life. I'm not shy to admit it that I love cars,not for their monetary worth or status, but for the magical moments created when a family seats together, sings songs and cracks jokes. It is a moving living room.
I can't bear to think what the future of my kids are going to be. My son will be asked to go to the army, get peanuts for 2 years in a country where money is the only thing that matters. I dare the people ruling this country to say otherwise. This country is run like a PTE LTD or a large CBD by CEOs. Country or rural sides are gone and people have been taught that this is the best. A typical week for a non married sporean is to work everyday, go window shopping and buy nothing, gossip and drink coffee and then club and sleep in. Of cos, eat in-between all of these "exciting" activities. A married couple without kids do the same as singles. But those with kids, stress themselves and the kids on what school to place their kids and tuition teacher to get.
Soon Singaporeans will see many simple things in life in history books or in TV shows. The people with cars will be the Elite while the rest will be commoners. The separation already exists but the division will be clear 15 years from now.
It is true that we all are migrants but the people who came here, came here to build a nation and created a unique singapore identity "la". That was the time the world was evolving and countries were finding its identities. Now we have started all over again. And the identity we once knew is transforming into something else. We have foreign groups amongst us who are stubbornly saying that they are a society. I don't see them changing to our multiracial ways. When a Singaporean speaks, we know, we understand and we relate.
Living in Singapore is being delusional in terms of finance. We spend our whole lives paying for a small house and then when we retire, if we do, we don't have enough money to begin our retirement years. To make things worst, our hard earned money is kept and given to us according to what the country CEO decides.
One things for sure, I have been brainwashed all these while to think that our way is the best. Safe country with many opportunities. Well, safety flew out the windows recently when we became headlines globally with police cars being neatly arranged on its sides.
Today I wake up, not for myself but for my kids. I want them to enjoy life as I did. Sit in a car with their kids one day and drive around. I pray that I too can afford a car once the term expires. The word is own a car, not lease it for 10 years for an exorbitant price! I want to own a home without a 30yr loan. We don't have a choice when every corner in Singapore has been evaluated high. Look CEO, give us a place to go and buy cheap homes like our dads! We need it. We can't be buying houses for the resale values.
With Social media and cheap air travel, everyone is going to compare what we don't have. Don't let the CEO convince you that we have what we need. Not everything is what we need. We have wants too.
These will be the questions in schools for students 15 years from now:
What has happened to this country?
Was there a need to expand so fast?
Who said we must be a rich nation?
How did most Singaporean become white collar workers while the rest were looked down upon?
Why did we give up our country to foreigners so easily with such large influx?
What is our Singaporean identity?
What is it like driving a car with your parents and kids?
What is financial freedom?
Why didn't my parents stop this during their time?
Why did they leave behind a legacy of concrete and rules?
How do I retire?
What is creativity?
What's it like to go fishing or playing in the rain?
What is a rural area?
What is like living freely?
I hope all of you will start thinking about what really matters in this one and only life you have.
A Singaporean who just woke up
Sleepy Singaporean TRS Contributor
Post date: 17 Dec 2013 - 7:21am
I Just Woke Up...
Born in the mid 70's, I grew up with fond memories of seating in the back seat of my dad's car, going to not so crowded beaches and neighborhood parties. Now all grown up, I have 2 kids on my own and have been struggling to create moments for my family that my parents once did. The places I once knew are all concrete and the basic enjoyments in life are diminishing. Once my existing car expires, I don't think I can buy another. My kids are in primary school and I doubt they will be able to buy cars or a proper living space, 15 years from now. I'm not looking at a high end car but a normal family saloon that we can all enjoy in.
What has happened to Singapore, a country I once loved. I didn't choose to be born here but now it seems I may not have a choice but to leave here if I still want to enjoy simple pleasures in life. I'm not shy to admit it that I love cars,not for their monetary worth or status, but for the magical moments created when a family seats together, sings songs and cracks jokes. It is a moving living room.
I can't bear to think what the future of my kids are going to be. My son will be asked to go to the army, get peanuts for 2 years in a country where money is the only thing that matters. I dare the people ruling this country to say otherwise. This country is run like a PTE LTD or a large CBD by CEOs. Country or rural sides are gone and people have been taught that this is the best. A typical week for a non married sporean is to work everyday, go window shopping and buy nothing, gossip and drink coffee and then club and sleep in. Of cos, eat in-between all of these "exciting" activities. A married couple without kids do the same as singles. But those with kids, stress themselves and the kids on what school to place their kids and tuition teacher to get.
Soon Singaporeans will see many simple things in life in history books or in TV shows. The people with cars will be the Elite while the rest will be commoners. The separation already exists but the division will be clear 15 years from now.
It is true that we all are migrants but the people who came here, came here to build a nation and created a unique singapore identity "la". That was the time the world was evolving and countries were finding its identities. Now we have started all over again. And the identity we once knew is transforming into something else. We have foreign groups amongst us who are stubbornly saying that they are a society. I don't see them changing to our multiracial ways. When a Singaporean speaks, we know, we understand and we relate.
Living in Singapore is being delusional in terms of finance. We spend our whole lives paying for a small house and then when we retire, if we do, we don't have enough money to begin our retirement years. To make things worst, our hard earned money is kept and given to us according to what the country CEO decides.
One things for sure, I have been brainwashed all these while to think that our way is the best. Safe country with many opportunities. Well, safety flew out the windows recently when we became headlines globally with police cars being neatly arranged on its sides.
Today I wake up, not for myself but for my kids. I want them to enjoy life as I did. Sit in a car with their kids one day and drive around. I pray that I too can afford a car once the term expires. The word is own a car, not lease it for 10 years for an exorbitant price! I want to own a home without a 30yr loan. We don't have a choice when every corner in Singapore has been evaluated high. Look CEO, give us a place to go and buy cheap homes like our dads! We need it. We can't be buying houses for the resale values.
With Social media and cheap air travel, everyone is going to compare what we don't have. Don't let the CEO convince you that we have what we need. Not everything is what we need. We have wants too.
These will be the questions in schools for students 15 years from now:
What has happened to this country?
Was there a need to expand so fast?
Who said we must be a rich nation?
How did most Singaporean become white collar workers while the rest were looked down upon?
Why did we give up our country to foreigners so easily with such large influx?
What is our Singaporean identity?
What is it like driving a car with your parents and kids?
What is financial freedom?
Why didn't my parents stop this during their time?
Why did they leave behind a legacy of concrete and rules?
How do I retire?
What is creativity?
What's it like to go fishing or playing in the rain?
What is a rural area?
What is like living freely?
I hope all of you will start thinking about what really matters in this one and only life you have.
A Singaporean who just woke up
Sleepy Singaporean TRS Contributor
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
RtB
Great effort from the production team! God bless your team.
Friday, November 29, 2013
Takoyaki (^。^)
First attempt and result were satisfactory. Ha... borrowed for weeks and only used once! Time to return the pan.
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Friday, November 15, 2013
Yours Truthly's Birthday!
DH took a day off and we spent the day in the city. Had our first even proper western meal in OZ. It was good. Nice and beautiful weather to sit outside. A peaceful afternoon, just the way I like it. The reason why I moved down here. Cannot be more thankful for that!
Aww... It was a birthday celebration the way I enjoy. Thanks DH!
Monday, November 11, 2013
Uniqlo is Coming to Melbourne
Woke up 6am to attend a 9am Info Session cum interview for the Salas Asst. role with Uniqlo's first store in Australia. There was also a short 15mins group discussion and presentation, where all the managers stood around to closely observe all candidates. Basically, they observed you throughout the session. They were really serious in their selection process. You can see in their eyes that they were evaluating you every moment. Kinda scary when your eyes accidentally met theirs. Most candidates were eager to speak and alot, making sure they shine among the 30 over number of candidates... so competitive! I said my part. Went through the 15-30mins interview, hopefully they are happy with my answers. We'll wait for 21-Nov for the verdict.
I need some rest, my head... Need OS update.
I need some rest, my head... Need OS update.
Wednesday, October 30, 2013
Friday, October 25, 2013
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Monday, October 21, 2013
Time to Practise My Green Fingers
Why do I feel like my seedling patch looks like.... graveyards?!
Sunday, October 20, 2013
Kari Po, anyone?
Saturday, October 12, 2013
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Six Pack in the Making
I WANT to make my stretching routine at 4.30pm, Monday-Friday!
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
Sunday, September 29, 2013
Birthday Boys
Saturday, September 28, 2013
Monday, September 16, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
3 Prime Ministers within 1 year
Last weekend was the first Australia election for me, not that I am voting, but the winning party is going to affect my life somehow now. Coalition party led by Tony Abbott has won the race (still trying to let this sink-in), he is my third Prime Minister since I arrived in Australia within a short period of one year. This is OZ politics... Welcome to Australia! Let's see what Tony has up on his sleeves.
Image Source:
Gillard: www.smh.com.au
RuddSource: The Daily Telegraph
Abbott: alexwhite.org
GREAT DEAL from MAS
I
t was such a great deal and I wanted to share but not sure with who... that's so sad! Anyhow, two days ago, me and hubby was casually talking about having a holiday to Tokyo sometime next year, if there is any flight promotion. So, I picked up our mini Ipad and started surfing zuji. I couldn't believe my eyes, I passed the ipad to hubby to make sure that my eyes were not playing thricks on me, and voila! After comparing and confirming the schedule, the price, we made the deal with MAS! We are visiting Tokyo for 8 days, in Spring next year, and visiting our family at the same time. AWESOME~~~
The deal is PEN>NRT>SIN for only SGD713 return for TWO! Yes! For TWO! woohoo~ How cool is that?! Thank you Jesus for the holiday! I am so excited! KonichiWA~~~
The deal is PEN>NRT>SIN for only SGD713 return for TWO! Yes! For TWO! woohoo~ How cool is that?! Thank you Jesus for the holiday! I am so excited! KonichiWA~~~
Monday, August 26, 2013
Monday, August 5, 2013
Dinner @ Boxhill
Ended Sabbath with a Korean BBQ dinner and HK dessert, plus good company! Home steamboat is next. (^o^)
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Shaken~
Yesterday I did my morning prayer as per normal. I told God, if it is His plan that we should go back, He will speak to us audibly. And late morning, a message came from DH, saying that his business unit has been sold. The whole team will be moving to the new company in CBD, effective mid of next week. It was sudden. I started to feel unsettle. Did not we moved here to run away from the long travel hours to & fro work... And job security is also at risk, toward the end of this year DH will know if he will still be employ. As if this is not enough, our rental agent emailed to say our tenant would like to have early termination of her lease. We are losing our sources of income. So, is God showing us signs? Suddenly I felt a lost of direction. Uncertainty is making me unsettle.... There seems to be an increasing push factors here.
Lord, if this is your plan for us, I ask that You will provide a smooth transition.
Lord, if this is your plan for us, I ask that You will provide a smooth transition.
Monday, July 22, 2013
Women's Ministry Conference
Spent 1 night at Silverwater Hotel at Philip Island to attend the conference, with speaker Brenda Walsh. Had good fellowship and good food!
Learnt:
- To serve God,
1. Be Willing
2. Be Obedient
3. Be Joyful
- 'Divine Appointment'
Learnt:
- To serve God,
1. Be Willing
2. Be Obedient
3. Be Joyful
- 'Divine Appointment'
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
Home-made Mee Siam Paste
Yay~ Open ceremony for my new kitchen helper- Philip Handheld blender. I proudly present to you my home-made mee siam paste.
Ingredient:
1 Red Capsicum
1 Red Onion
Some Red Chillies (fresh & dried)
Some Anchiovies
Some Garlic
Some Soybean Paste
Put all into blender! (^ー^)ノ
Ingredient:
1 Red Capsicum
1 Red Onion
Some Red Chillies (fresh & dried)
Some Anchiovies
Some Garlic
Some Soybean Paste
Put all into blender! (^ー^)ノ
Friday, June 28, 2013
Dine-Out Friday It Is!
And we had our favourite Curry YTF @ Grand Tofu! Slooup~ yum...! Comfort food!
PS: YTF stands for yong tau fu.
PS: YTF stands for yong tau fu.
Friday, June 21, 2013
Hazy Singapore brought good business opportunities
Air-purifiers on gmarket Singapore is having a good business.
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